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Domestic Partner Planning Websites Launched

This month, we are proud to announce the addition of an online domestic partner life and estate planning education system that is free for North Carolina residents. Too often, we have found that people get conflicting advice, the wrong advice, or simply shut their personal research down because they don’t know where to start. With the launch of www.RaleighDomesticPartnerPlanning.com and www.AshevilleDomesticPartnerPlanning.com, residents in both locales can download a free audio program on the basics of domestic partner planning and receive several follow-up e-mails that focus on particularly important topics.

Newsletter Just Published

Read our latest Newsletter Click Here Topics covered: – Domestic Partner Planning Websites Launched – Jeff Marsocci Joins HRC Board of Governors – Circle K Haunted House a Success Wish to review our past newsletters, can’t find your older ones Click Here

Tips on Throwing a Birthday Party for a Senior

By: Lauren Watral, MSW Geriatric Care Manager www.rgcmgmt.com

Each year that an older aging adult enjoys health and life is cause to celebrate, which makes birthdays a very special time of year for seniors. Planning a birthday party for your grandmother or grandfather takes special planning to accommodate the needs of the whole family, including the senior who is the guest of honor.

Trust Protector Language Disguises Law Firm Cash Machine

I recently had the opportunity to review a trust from one of the top trust attorneys from Asheville, North Carolina and was a little disturbed with what I found. I went through the usual 222 point review looking for each of the provisions our trusts have, and in the end the trust had 75% of them, which is actually very good for what we usually find. However, what was really disturbing was what was missing. Considering the level of expertise it took to create these trusts, it seemed strange that the missing items were pretty universal:

What Baby Boomers Can Do To Help and Protect their Aging Parents.

by Craig A. Knapp

Generally speaking, “baby boomers” are people born in the United States between 1946 and 1965. If you are a baby boomer, you may have to face the challenge of caring for your aging parents. Providing that care may occasionally be hard, but it will also be rewarding and fulfilling, since in many ways you will be paying your parents back for the love, attention, and care that they gave you when you were growing up. Here are the ten of the most important things you can do to help and protect your aging parents:

How Much Does a $99 Will Really Cost?

Many times a $99 Will costs a lot more than 9,900 pennies. Going through an online service to create your Last Will and Testament may save time and money up front, but the cost can later be devastating to the family. And often irreversible.

It is pretty well established that 75% of the people in the U.S. have no written estate plan whatsoever. While it may seem like online Will services are helping get part of the 75% to do something they wouldn’t otherwise do, my experience as an attorney has shown that about 75% of the estate problems that end up in court are there because someone tried to do it themselves.

NC Legislature Sets Ballot Initiative to End Corporations

In an overwhelming vote and a strong blow to businesses throughout the state, North Carolina’s House and Senate affirmed a ballot initiative that would constitutionally ban corporations, limited liability companies and jointly held real estate. On Monday and Tuesday of this week, the legislature voted by a more than three-fifths majority in both houses to ban all legal unions within North Carolina that were not related to marriage between a man and a woman. The public will vote, by simple majority, on whether or not to approve the automatic dissolution of all corporate entities and jointly held real estate during the May 2012 primary elections.

How to Recognize Functional Decline in Older Adults

By: Lauren Watral, MSW Geriatric Care Manager, www.rgcmgmt.com

Functional decline is sometimes difficult to diagnose as individual symptoms often go unnoticed. Below is a list of symptoms of functional decline with which to be familiar.

Who do you want to be?

As a ten year old, I sat in front of the television watching a news program my aunt had put on. I had just watched one of my favorite Japanese animation cartoons (yes, even in the 1970s they had them), and, as usual, when the moment seemed darkest, the proverbial cavalry came to save the day. Now we turned to one of the major network stations since that was the deal… I had my hour of watching my show on the UHF station out of Boston, and now my aunt got to watch her news. One of the national newscasters was going on about how it was the 15 year anniversary of the Voting Rights Act of 1965, and how prejudice and violence in the South had ripped communities apart. Archived images of people being beaten by other people over the right to vote, or eat at the same restaurants as others, just confused me. Weren’t all grown ups allowed to vote? Couldn’t anyone go and eat in any restaurant they wanted if they could pay for it? It didn’t make sense. My mind was still reeling from the hours of cartoons I watched, so it didn’t hit me right away… all of the people being beaten were dark-skinned and all of the people doing the beating were light-skinned. Oh.
Then I asked my aunt about it, and she told me a little about the Civil Rights Movement, and how there was a big struggle in our country over whether or not African Americans should have the same rights as whites. And it was as recent as fifteen years ago. As a naïve ten year old, I thought that was settled in 1776. Apparently not. And the more I asked my aunt about it, and the more I asked her what she did about it, the more withdrawn she became. It became clear even to a ten-year old that she had stood by, watched events happen, and didn’t do anything to help. She was embarrassed. She had been a witness to history, but not a part of it.

Adult Children of Aging Parents Support Group – Next Meeting Tomorrow

Meeting details:
September 7th and 21st

Patti’s Cafe
Health Park at 8300 Health Park
(across from the Cypress on Forum Dr.)

7:00pm-8:00pm
FREE

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